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#392 – House Rules with Myquillyn Smith

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My guest this week is the lovely Myquillyn Smith, also known as The Nester. She is a New York Times and Wall Street Journal best-selling author of Welcome Home and Cozy Minimalist Home. For over a decade, she has been encouraging women to embrace imperfections and live boldly in their spaces through her blog.

Myquillyn’s home in North Carolina has been featured in publications such as Better Homes and Gardens, Ladies Home Journal, Cottages and Bungalows, and more. As a practicing imperfectionist, she believes in the power of small changes, putting nail holes in the wall, and taking the time to make a place feel like home – even if you’re renting.

I thoroughly enjoyed getting to know her, hearing her perspective on creating a space you’ll love, and learning more about her latest book, House Rules, which is set to release on April 23rd. I just know you’re going to love her too!

3:07 – Myquillyn 101

  • Starting “The Nester” in 2007
  • Learning to build a home by moving frequently
  • Teaching universal decorating truths

9:55 – Making a Home

  • The perfectly staged homes seen on social media
  • Embracing imperfection in home decor
  • Making your space feel like you

17:45 – Establishing Roots Where You Are

  • Taking ownership of your space, even in rentals or temporary spaces
  • The perfect circumstance will never come
  • The power of simple changes in home design

29:06 – Design Insights

  • The genesis of Myquillyn’s passion for decorating
  • Understanding design principles like scale, contrast, and lighting
  • The Inspiration behind Myquillyn’s book, House Rules

38:39 – Embracing Imperfection

  • Being a practicing imperfectionist
  • Learning to take risks in home decor and life
  • You can’t ruin something you already hate
  • Connecting with Myquillyn + pre-ordering House Rules

FEATURED QUOTES

“I’ve never met a home I haven’t loved. I believe every home has a silver lining.”

“I 100% believe it doesn’t have to be perfect to be beautiful.”

“Where else can we take a risk if not at home?”

Learn more about Myquillyn:

Pre-order House Rules:

The Nester

https://thenester.com/

The Nester podcast

https://thenester.com/podcast/

Myquillyn on Instagram

https://www.instagram.com/thenester/?hl=en

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About Can I Laugh On Your Shoulder?

Can I Laugh On Your Shoulder? Podcast is a weekly podcast where we have honest conversations about faith, business, life, and everything in between. Hosted by speaker and author, Molly Stillman, her mission is to make you laugh, cry, and laugh till you cry. She wants to create a community of people who are unafraid to be themselves and have honest conversations about the things that matter most. Her vision is to create a safe space for people to explore their faith and share their stories and gifts with the world.

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2 years of this book baby being out in the world. The fact that I still get messages every week from people who are just discovering my book or reading it / listening to it for the first time means so much to me. It’s currently on sale right now on Amazon if you wanna snag a copy! Thank you for all the love and support 🫶🏼 #ifidontlaughillcry #ifidontlaughillcrybook

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2 years of this book baby being out in the world. The fact that I still get messages every week from people who are just discovering my book or reading it / listening to it for the first time means so much to me. It’s currently on sale right now on Amazon if you wanna snag a copy! Thank you for all the love and support 🫶🏼 #ifidontlaughillcry #ifidontlaughillcrybook

Our turkey gonna be hosting Sunday prayer and healing services soon… #farmhumor #turkeys #onlygodcandoit

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Our turkey gonna be hosting Sunday prayer and healing services soon… #farmhumor #turkeys #onlygodcandoit

Apparently March is “National Sleep Month.” Which feels like a joke when you have a newborn. 😅

Sleep is currently happening in very small, unpredictable increments over here… but when I do get a chance to sleep, this mattress is where. it. is. at. 😍

Mattress Concierge (@mattressconciergehome) builds handcrafted luxury mattresses in Hartford, Connecticut that are used in boutique hotels, and they deliver them directly to your home.

They’ll even take your old mattress away! (This is KEY because ain’t nobody got time to go figure out how to get rid of the old one…)

So yes… I may not be getting much sleep right now, but at least the sleep I get is really good. 😴

Learn more at —> www.mattressconcierge.com

#mattressconcierge #sleepmonth #hotelsleepathome #gifted #partner

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Apparently March is “National Sleep Month.” Which feels like a joke when you have a newborn. 😅

Sleep is currently happening in very small, unpredictable increments over here… but when I do get a chance to sleep, this mattress is where. it. is. at. 😍

Mattress Concierge (@mattressconciergehome) builds handcrafted luxury mattresses in Hartford, Connecticut that are used in boutique hotels, and they deliver them directly to your home.

They’ll even take your old mattress away! (This is KEY because ain’t nobody got time to go figure out how to get rid of the old one…)

So yes… I may not be getting much sleep right now, but at least the sleep I get is really good. 😴 

Learn more at —> www.mattressconcierge.com 

#mattressconcierge #sleepmonth #hotelsleepathome #gifted #partner

When I was writing this sermon, I asked God very specifically, “If people take away nothing else from this message, what do you want them to hear?” And I felt Him say so clearly, “Tell them, I won’t waste any of it.”

So many people are walking through really, really difficult things right now. Have walked through really difficult things. Are going to walk through really difficult things.

And the thing is, God wastes none of it.

And I know it’s easier said than done… When you’re in the middle of it and it makes no sense. It feels like nothing good can come from this really hard thing. But I’ve seen it, I’ve experienced it, I’ve felt it, I’ve witnessed it… God wastes absolutely nothing.

And it’s hard because sometimes we don’t get to see the fruit when we want to… But one thing I know for sure…He is faithful. He is good. He never, ever fails.

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When I was writing this sermon, I asked God very specifically, “If people take away nothing else from this message, what do you want them to hear?” And I felt Him say so clearly, “Tell them, I won’t waste any of it.”

So many people are walking through really, really difficult things right now. Have walked through really difficult things. Are going to walk through really difficult things.

And the thing is, God wastes none of it.

And I know it’s easier said than done… When you’re in the middle of it and it makes no sense. It feels like nothing good can come from this really hard thing. But I’ve seen it, I’ve experienced it, I’ve felt it, I’ve witnessed it… God wastes absolutely nothing.

And it’s hard because sometimes we don’t get to see the fruit when we want to… But one thing I know for sure…He is faithful. He is good. He never, ever fails.

I also looked like this when I thought I was gonna do a song and dance audition at the Apollo. Bless my heart.

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I also looked like this when I thought I was gonna do a song and dance audition at the Apollo. Bless my heart.

WEIGHTED VEST REVIEW

#babywearing #weightedvest

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WEIGHTED VEST REVIEW 

#babywearing #weightedvest

🌟 THREE MONTHS 🌟 what a treasure this girl is.
Our miracle Galilee Joy.

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🌟 THREE MONTHS 🌟 what a treasure this girl is. 
Our miracle Galilee Joy.

“It’s 2:37am. Rise and shine, peasant.” -my newborn

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“It’s 2:37am. Rise and shine, peasant.” -my newborn

2025: I turned 40, grew and birthed a miracle baby, went on a Disney Cruise, travelled to Banff, watched my kids soar, my marriage thrive, made sweet memories with friends, read 756,000 pages for Seminary, wrestled with and trusted God more than ever before. It wasn’t an easy year, but it was a beautifully wonderfully hard year I wouldn’t trade for anything. Here’s to 2026. 🥂 #2025recap

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2025: I turned 40, grew and birthed a miracle baby, went on a Disney Cruise, travelled to Banff, watched my kids soar, my marriage thrive, made sweet memories with friends, read 756,000 pages for Seminary, wrestled with and trusted God more than ever before. It wasn’t an easy year, but it was a beautifully wonderfully hard year I wouldn’t trade for anything. Here’s to 2026. 🥂 #2025recap

Some seasons stretch you in ways you wouldn’t choose, but end up shaping you anyway. Today, I finished my fourth semester of seminary (I`m officially halfway through!) in the middle of a beautiful and hard season... it reminded me that growth doesn’t come from having it all figured out. It comes from showing up, staying connected, and trusting that what’s forming quietly now will matter later.

Grateful for the lessons I didn’t plan on learning. 🤍

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Some seasons stretch you in ways you wouldn’t choose, but end up shaping you anyway. Today, I finished my fourth semester of seminary (I'm officially halfway through!) in the middle of a beautiful and hard season... it reminded me that growth doesn’t come from having it all figured out. It comes from showing up, staying connected, and trusting that what’s forming quietly now will matter later. 

Grateful for the lessons I didn’t plan on learning. 🤍
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