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#439 God, Can We Chat? Bringing Our Doubts to God with Niki Hardy

#439 God, Can We Chat? Bringing Our Doubts to God with Niki Hardy
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  • #439 God, Can We Chat? Bringing Our Doubts to God with Niki Hardy
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I’m thrilled to welcome Niki Hardy to the show this week! Niki is the author of the Audie Award-nominated Breathe Again and One Minute Prayers for Women With Cancer. Her newest book, God, Can We Chat? A Daringly Honest Guide to Growing Closer to God, One Doubt at a Time, hit shelves in March, which I’m so excited to chat about today.

Niki has left corporate life, moved continents, gone to seminary, planted churches, launched businesses and nonprofits, and navigated seasons of deep loss, cancer, church hurt, and painful uncertainty. Through it all, she firmly believes that God loves a cheerful doubter.

In this conversation, we talk about what it means to bring your real questions and struggles to God, and how to navigate those seasons when it feels like He’s silent. It’s a rich and hope-filled reminder that joy can exist even in the hardest seasons.

4:30 – Niki 101

  • Moving from the UK to North Carolina
  • What led Niki to becoming an author
  • Niki’s family and love for nature

6:11 – The Cheerful Doubter

  • Niki’s struggle to reconcile her doubts
  • Turning towards God in times of doubt
  • How doubt and faith can coexist

12:51 – Walking in Doubt

  • For the person that feels let down by God
  • Practical steps for doubt walking
  • The acronym “CHAT”

23:35 – The Legacy of Doubting Saints

  • Peter walking on water
  • Devotional elements and exercises Niki’s book
  • Holding doubts and joys together

29:08 – God, Can We Speed Chat?

  • Rapid fire questions with Niki
  • Where you can connect with Niki
  • Getting your copy of God, Can We Chat?

FEATURED QUOTES

“I think God actually loves a cheerful doubter. I think he’d rather we came to him than we just slid out the side door.”

“Feel free to question His presence and His provision and His providence and His goodness and His mercy, and cry out to Him, but turn towards him, not away from him.”

“I think holding the doubt and the questions and the confusion in tension with the joy and the love and the faith that we do have is just such a healthy way of walking our faith journey out.”

Learn more about Niki:

https://www.nikihardy.com

Get your copy of God, Can We Chat?

https://www.nikihardy.com/godcanwechat

Niki on Social Media:

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/NikiHardyauthor/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/niki.hardy/?hl=en

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2 years of this book baby being out in the world. The fact that I still get messages every week from people who are just discovering my book or reading it / listening to it for the first time means so much to me. It’s currently on sale right now on Amazon if you wanna snag a copy! Thank you for all the love and support 🫶🏼 #ifidontlaughillcry #ifidontlaughillcrybook

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2 years of this book baby being out in the world. The fact that I still get messages every week from people who are just discovering my book or reading it / listening to it for the first time means so much to me. It’s currently on sale right now on Amazon if you wanna snag a copy! Thank you for all the love and support 🫶🏼 #ifidontlaughillcry #ifidontlaughillcrybook

Our turkey gonna be hosting Sunday prayer and healing services soon… #farmhumor #turkeys #onlygodcandoit

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Our turkey gonna be hosting Sunday prayer and healing services soon… #farmhumor #turkeys #onlygodcandoit

Apparently March is “National Sleep Month.” Which feels like a joke when you have a newborn. 😅

Sleep is currently happening in very small, unpredictable increments over here… but when I do get a chance to sleep, this mattress is where. it. is. at. 😍

Mattress Concierge (@mattressconciergehome) builds handcrafted luxury mattresses in Hartford, Connecticut that are used in boutique hotels, and they deliver them directly to your home.

They’ll even take your old mattress away! (This is KEY because ain’t nobody got time to go figure out how to get rid of the old one…)

So yes… I may not be getting much sleep right now, but at least the sleep I get is really good. 😴

Learn more at —> www.mattressconcierge.com

#mattressconcierge #sleepmonth #hotelsleepathome #gifted #partner

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Apparently March is “National Sleep Month.” Which feels like a joke when you have a newborn. 😅

Sleep is currently happening in very small, unpredictable increments over here… but when I do get a chance to sleep, this mattress is where. it. is. at. 😍

Mattress Concierge (@mattressconciergehome) builds handcrafted luxury mattresses in Hartford, Connecticut that are used in boutique hotels, and they deliver them directly to your home.

They’ll even take your old mattress away! (This is KEY because ain’t nobody got time to go figure out how to get rid of the old one…)

So yes… I may not be getting much sleep right now, but at least the sleep I get is really good. 😴 

Learn more at —> www.mattressconcierge.com 

#mattressconcierge #sleepmonth #hotelsleepathome #gifted #partner

When I was writing this sermon, I asked God very specifically, “If people take away nothing else from this message, what do you want them to hear?” And I felt Him say so clearly, “Tell them, I won’t waste any of it.”

So many people are walking through really, really difficult things right now. Have walked through really difficult things. Are going to walk through really difficult things.

And the thing is, God wastes none of it.

And I know it’s easier said than done… When you’re in the middle of it and it makes no sense. It feels like nothing good can come from this really hard thing. But I’ve seen it, I’ve experienced it, I’ve felt it, I’ve witnessed it… God wastes absolutely nothing.

And it’s hard because sometimes we don’t get to see the fruit when we want to… But one thing I know for sure…He is faithful. He is good. He never, ever fails.

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When I was writing this sermon, I asked God very specifically, “If people take away nothing else from this message, what do you want them to hear?” And I felt Him say so clearly, “Tell them, I won’t waste any of it.”

So many people are walking through really, really difficult things right now. Have walked through really difficult things. Are going to walk through really difficult things.

And the thing is, God wastes none of it.

And I know it’s easier said than done… When you’re in the middle of it and it makes no sense. It feels like nothing good can come from this really hard thing. But I’ve seen it, I’ve experienced it, I’ve felt it, I’ve witnessed it… God wastes absolutely nothing.

And it’s hard because sometimes we don’t get to see the fruit when we want to… But one thing I know for sure…He is faithful. He is good. He never, ever fails.

I also looked like this when I thought I was gonna do a song and dance audition at the Apollo. Bless my heart.

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I also looked like this when I thought I was gonna do a song and dance audition at the Apollo. Bless my heart.

WEIGHTED VEST REVIEW

#babywearing #weightedvest

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WEIGHTED VEST REVIEW 

#babywearing #weightedvest

🌟 THREE MONTHS 🌟 what a treasure this girl is.
Our miracle Galilee Joy.

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🌟 THREE MONTHS 🌟 what a treasure this girl is. 
Our miracle Galilee Joy.

“It’s 2:37am. Rise and shine, peasant.” -my newborn

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“It’s 2:37am. Rise and shine, peasant.” -my newborn

2025: I turned 40, grew and birthed a miracle baby, went on a Disney Cruise, travelled to Banff, watched my kids soar, my marriage thrive, made sweet memories with friends, read 756,000 pages for Seminary, wrestled with and trusted God more than ever before. It wasn’t an easy year, but it was a beautifully wonderfully hard year I wouldn’t trade for anything. Here’s to 2026. 🥂 #2025recap

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2025: I turned 40, grew and birthed a miracle baby, went on a Disney Cruise, travelled to Banff, watched my kids soar, my marriage thrive, made sweet memories with friends, read 756,000 pages for Seminary, wrestled with and trusted God more than ever before. It wasn’t an easy year, but it was a beautifully wonderfully hard year I wouldn’t trade for anything. Here’s to 2026. 🥂 #2025recap

Some seasons stretch you in ways you wouldn’t choose, but end up shaping you anyway. Today, I finished my fourth semester of seminary (I`m officially halfway through!) in the middle of a beautiful and hard season... it reminded me that growth doesn’t come from having it all figured out. It comes from showing up, staying connected, and trusting that what’s forming quietly now will matter later.

Grateful for the lessons I didn’t plan on learning. 🤍

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Some seasons stretch you in ways you wouldn’t choose, but end up shaping you anyway. Today, I finished my fourth semester of seminary (I'm officially halfway through!) in the middle of a beautiful and hard season... it reminded me that growth doesn’t come from having it all figured out. It comes from showing up, staying connected, and trusting that what’s forming quietly now will matter later. 

Grateful for the lessons I didn’t plan on learning. 🤍
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