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#408 Life is Messy, God is Good with Cynthia Yanof

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You are in for a treat this week! My guest is the hilarious and inspiring Cynthia Yanof. Cynthia is a wife, mom of 3, podcaster, blogger, and everyday girl who believes in embracing life’s messiness with a sense of humor and a whole lot of faith.

She spends most of her days hoping her kids won’t embarrass her in public while praying they chase after God-sized dreams. After meeting her husband, Mike, in law school, she swapped legal aspirations for a simpler life (though that only lasted about a day). Now, Cynthia is the host of the popular MESSmerized podcast, a speaker, writer, and a passionate advocate for foster care.

We laughed, we got deep, and we covered it all in this episode. Cynthia’s first book, Life Is Messy, God Is Good, is available now, and this conversation is a perfect reflection of that message. Tune in for a fun and relatable chat that reminds us all that while life may be messy, God is always good.

2:13 – Dance Parties in Nursing Homes

  • Embracing 40
  • Having fun at every life stage
  • Reminiscing about prom music

11:20 – Cynthia 101

  • Married for 22 years with 3 kids
  • A foster parent
  • Author of Life Is Messy, God Is Good
  • Leaving law to become a podcaster

16:21 – Redefining Success + Aligning With Your Calling

  • Being outside of your gifting
  • What narratives are you listening to?
  • Measuring success by God’s truth
  • God wastes nothing

24:46 – The Foundational Things

  • The story of the thigh master
  • Learning to hear the voice of God
  • The ordinary stuff is important
  • Deepening your relationship with God in hard seasons

36:42 – Embracing The Mess

  • Questioning God’s timing and methodology
  • God is God
  • Connecting with Cynthia

FEATURED QUOTES

“When you’re doing something outside of your gifting, you know.”

“If you’re sitting in a space where you’re like, I feel like there might be something next the Lord’s calling me into something next…. it takes the most reluctant ‘yes,’ and the Lord will take that and run with it.”

” You’ve got to be putting foundational things in place in your life in order to hear from God.”

” Don’t buy into the lie that the ordinary stuff isn’t significant because it is.”

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About Can I Laugh On Your Shoulder?

Can I Laugh On Your Shoulder? Podcast is a weekly podcast where we have honest conversations about faith, business, life, and everything in between. Hosted by speaker and author, Molly Stillman, her mission is to make you laugh, cry, and laugh till you cry. She wants to create a community of people who are unafraid to be themselves and have honest conversations about the things that matter most. Her vision is to create a safe space for people to explore their faith and share their stories and gifts with the world.

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2 years of this book baby being out in the world. The fact that I still get messages every week from people who are just discovering my book or reading it / listening to it for the first time means so much to me. It’s currently on sale right now on Amazon if you wanna snag a copy! Thank you for all the love and support 🫶🏼 #ifidontlaughillcry #ifidontlaughillcrybook

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2 years of this book baby being out in the world. The fact that I still get messages every week from people who are just discovering my book or reading it / listening to it for the first time means so much to me. It’s currently on sale right now on Amazon if you wanna snag a copy! Thank you for all the love and support 🫶🏼 #ifidontlaughillcry #ifidontlaughillcrybook

Our turkey gonna be hosting Sunday prayer and healing services soon… #farmhumor #turkeys #onlygodcandoit

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Our turkey gonna be hosting Sunday prayer and healing services soon… #farmhumor #turkeys #onlygodcandoit

Apparently March is “National Sleep Month.” Which feels like a joke when you have a newborn. 😅

Sleep is currently happening in very small, unpredictable increments over here… but when I do get a chance to sleep, this mattress is where. it. is. at. 😍

Mattress Concierge (@mattressconciergehome) builds handcrafted luxury mattresses in Hartford, Connecticut that are used in boutique hotels, and they deliver them directly to your home.

They’ll even take your old mattress away! (This is KEY because ain’t nobody got time to go figure out how to get rid of the old one…)

So yes… I may not be getting much sleep right now, but at least the sleep I get is really good. 😴

Learn more at —> www.mattressconcierge.com

#mattressconcierge #sleepmonth #hotelsleepathome #gifted #partner

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Apparently March is “National Sleep Month.” Which feels like a joke when you have a newborn. 😅

Sleep is currently happening in very small, unpredictable increments over here… but when I do get a chance to sleep, this mattress is where. it. is. at. 😍

Mattress Concierge (@mattressconciergehome) builds handcrafted luxury mattresses in Hartford, Connecticut that are used in boutique hotels, and they deliver them directly to your home.

They’ll even take your old mattress away! (This is KEY because ain’t nobody got time to go figure out how to get rid of the old one…)

So yes… I may not be getting much sleep right now, but at least the sleep I get is really good. 😴 

Learn more at —> www.mattressconcierge.com 

#mattressconcierge #sleepmonth #hotelsleepathome #gifted #partner

When I was writing this sermon, I asked God very specifically, “If people take away nothing else from this message, what do you want them to hear?” And I felt Him say so clearly, “Tell them, I won’t waste any of it.”

So many people are walking through really, really difficult things right now. Have walked through really difficult things. Are going to walk through really difficult things.

And the thing is, God wastes none of it.

And I know it’s easier said than done… When you’re in the middle of it and it makes no sense. It feels like nothing good can come from this really hard thing. But I’ve seen it, I’ve experienced it, I’ve felt it, I’ve witnessed it… God wastes absolutely nothing.

And it’s hard because sometimes we don’t get to see the fruit when we want to… But one thing I know for sure…He is faithful. He is good. He never, ever fails.

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When I was writing this sermon, I asked God very specifically, “If people take away nothing else from this message, what do you want them to hear?” And I felt Him say so clearly, “Tell them, I won’t waste any of it.”

So many people are walking through really, really difficult things right now. Have walked through really difficult things. Are going to walk through really difficult things.

And the thing is, God wastes none of it.

And I know it’s easier said than done… When you’re in the middle of it and it makes no sense. It feels like nothing good can come from this really hard thing. But I’ve seen it, I’ve experienced it, I’ve felt it, I’ve witnessed it… God wastes absolutely nothing.

And it’s hard because sometimes we don’t get to see the fruit when we want to… But one thing I know for sure…He is faithful. He is good. He never, ever fails.

I also looked like this when I thought I was gonna do a song and dance audition at the Apollo. Bless my heart.

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I also looked like this when I thought I was gonna do a song and dance audition at the Apollo. Bless my heart.

WEIGHTED VEST REVIEW

#babywearing #weightedvest

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WEIGHTED VEST REVIEW 

#babywearing #weightedvest

🌟 THREE MONTHS 🌟 what a treasure this girl is.
Our miracle Galilee Joy.

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🌟 THREE MONTHS 🌟 what a treasure this girl is. 
Our miracle Galilee Joy.

“It’s 2:37am. Rise and shine, peasant.” -my newborn

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“It’s 2:37am. Rise and shine, peasant.” -my newborn

2025: I turned 40, grew and birthed a miracle baby, went on a Disney Cruise, travelled to Banff, watched my kids soar, my marriage thrive, made sweet memories with friends, read 756,000 pages for Seminary, wrestled with and trusted God more than ever before. It wasn’t an easy year, but it was a beautifully wonderfully hard year I wouldn’t trade for anything. Here’s to 2026. 🥂 #2025recap

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2025: I turned 40, grew and birthed a miracle baby, went on a Disney Cruise, travelled to Banff, watched my kids soar, my marriage thrive, made sweet memories with friends, read 756,000 pages for Seminary, wrestled with and trusted God more than ever before. It wasn’t an easy year, but it was a beautifully wonderfully hard year I wouldn’t trade for anything. Here’s to 2026. 🥂 #2025recap

Some seasons stretch you in ways you wouldn’t choose, but end up shaping you anyway. Today, I finished my fourth semester of seminary (I`m officially halfway through!) in the middle of a beautiful and hard season... it reminded me that growth doesn’t come from having it all figured out. It comes from showing up, staying connected, and trusting that what’s forming quietly now will matter later.

Grateful for the lessons I didn’t plan on learning. 🤍

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Some seasons stretch you in ways you wouldn’t choose, but end up shaping you anyway. Today, I finished my fourth semester of seminary (I'm officially halfway through!) in the middle of a beautiful and hard season... it reminded me that growth doesn’t come from having it all figured out. It comes from showing up, staying connected, and trusting that what’s forming quietly now will matter later. 

Grateful for the lessons I didn’t plan on learning. 🤍
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