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How to Navigate Life’s Big and Small Losses with Chuck & Ashley Elliott | Can I Laugh On Your Shoulder? Podcast EP: 361

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Today I am thrilled to be joined by Chuck and Ashley Elliott, content creators who you may recognize from platforms such as YouVersion or RightNow Media. Beyond their online presence, Chuck is a pastor at Bethel Church in Evansville, Indiana, while Ashley serves as a licensed counselor.

Recently, Chuck and Ashley co-authored a transformative book titled I Used to Be ____. Life can take unexpected turns, and when you find yourself grappling with loss- whether it’s the loss of a relationship, a job, a sense of security, or an identity- you enter the realm of “used to be.” It’s a space that can feel stifling, leaving you trapped in memories of what once was. But Chuck and Ashley are here to remind you that while it’s natural to dwell in this space for a while, it’s not where you’re meant to stay.

This episode dives deep into the heart of grief and the path to healing. This is such a powerful conversation that I am so excited to share.

4:39 – Chuck and Ashley 101

  • Meeting at Lee University
  • Finding their love for ministry together
  • The story behind I Used To Be _____

11:56 – Experiencing grief

  • Grief is not linear
  • Everyone’s journey is unique
  • What does God want for us?

27:33 – There is hope

  • God does not want us to stay stuck in these places
  • The Lord is near to the brokenhearted
  • God is worth the sacrifice

38:00 – What God teaches through suffering

  • Through suffering and grief, God can do his best work
  • John 3:30

47:47 – Navigating seasons of loss

  • Acknowledge big and small losses
  • Breathe and be patient with yourself
  • The complex interplay between grief and joy

47:47 – Supporting those in grief

  • Find creative ways to offer support
  • Don’t feel like you have to say the perfect thing
  • Be present

FEATURED QUOTES

Don’t feel like you have to say the perfect thing because there is no perfect thing to say. When you show up, you don’t have to say something to take away their pain.

Give yourself permission to take care of yourself. When you don’t feel like you’re okay, tell someone you don’t feel okay.

You can be joyful and grieving at the same time. You can laugh and cry at the same time.

https://www.chuckandashley.com/

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He is risen indeed! ✝️

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🎊 ONE WHOLE YEAR 🎉

My debut memoir, “If I Don’t Laugh, I’ll Cry” has been out in the world for one whole year today. Writing this book was hard and holy work, and it’s been such a joy to see how many of you have laughed, cried, and laughed till you cried.

Thank you for the support of this book. ❤️

If you’ve read it, would you do me a *huge* favor and leave a review on Amazon and Goodreads? And would you share the book with a friend or on social media? It would mean the world to me.

And if you haven’t picked up a copy or downloaded the audiobook yet, what are you waiting for? 😉

#ifidontlaughillcry #iidlic #nelsonbooks

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🎊 ONE WHOLE YEAR 🎉 

My debut memoir, “If I Don’t Laugh, I’ll Cry” has been out in the world for one whole year today. Writing this book was hard and holy work, and it’s been such a joy to see how many of you have laughed, cried, and laughed till you cried. 

Thank you for the support of this book. ❤️

If you’ve read it, would you do me a *huge* favor and leave a review on Amazon and Goodreads? And would you share the book with a friend or on social media? It would mean the world to me. 

And if you haven’t picked up a copy or downloaded the audiobook yet, what are you waiting for? 😉 

#ifidontlaughillcry #iidlic #nelsonbooks

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13 years of being married to the best man I know. Life with you is more than I ever could have dreamed. I love you, J. 🤍 #happyanniversary 

📷 @katelynjames

And the people of God said… AMEN!

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I often wonder if he’d be a red head like Amos or if he’d be musically gifted like Lilly.

Would he love snuggling or be a boy who only wanted hugs on his terms?

Would his eyes be brown like his dad’s or would he be covered in freckles?

What would his laugh sound like? Who would be his best friend? What would his favorite book be? Would he say Gen Alpha slang words like sigma and skibidi or would he love his mom too much to do that?

Would I be mommy or mama or mom to him?

So many questions I won’t get to answers to on this side of heaven. But I think about him today, just like every day, and I hope he’s getting a slice of strawberry cake for his heavenly birthday.

7 years. 🤍 #elijahtimothy

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I often wonder if he’d be a red head like Amos or if he’d be musically gifted like Lilly. 

Would he love snuggling or be a boy who only wanted hugs on his terms? 

Would his eyes be brown like his dad’s or would he be covered in freckles?

What would his laugh sound like? Who would be his best friend? What would his favorite book be? Would he say Gen Alpha slang words like sigma and skibidi or would he love his mom too much to do that? 

Would I be mommy or mama or mom to him?

So many questions I won’t get to answers to on this side of heaven. But I think about him today, just like every day, and I hope he’s getting a slice of strawberry cake for his heavenly birthday. 

7 years. 🤍 #elijahtimothy

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